good call and all the best to ya, if lawyers are involved ,use him or her to disprove any kind of use before review by the judge . i recently went through the same (divorce), anything that was brought up by my ex and myself that was lets say damning in nature , was discussed (with our lawyers)and revoked from statements if not pertinent . smoking was thrown out cause everyone has done it, use was thrown out cause ,prove it wasnt otc, when igf and body building supps can be bought anywhere. after the bullshit was sifted thru it boiled down to parenting and i now have all the kids living with me. so let her talk shit just make sure your lawyer is on their a game .times have changed to were they dont 100% favor the mom anymore a good lawyer will achieve this. sorry for the long post , i do hope the best for ya and hope this eases your mind a little.