depression

[deltachistud]

im sure, have any of ya'll had depression so bad that you just want to kill your self, and you drink so much till you pass out and become anti social, when you were the person who made the party, your g/f wants to know whats wrong and you cant tell her " look heres whats up, im on AS" so you run away from everything.
every1 sees it but you and there worried and you just want to be along when thats the worst the to do.
all you so is drink till ou cant walk, then try to go to sleep, but cant, so you cry till you do go to sleep, and wake up like 10 times during the night jsut to cry again

 

[Stickler*]

bro...

You need a venting system....


Whether it's the boards, whether it's a psychiatrist, whether it's ... well .. anyone...


1st of all.. that's what we are here for.. (as a community).
2nd, it's never THAT BAD... remember it CAN ALWAYS BE WORSE
3rd... when it feels tough, think positive. ...


... and if ya really want feel stupid, but maybe laugh at the same time.. force yourself to smile for AS LONG AS YOU CAN, and after a while, you'll feel so stupid.... that you might even laugh for real.

sounds dumb.. but sometimes stupid things work...


Bro.. dont' lose sleep, ... if you're depressed.. think positive about shit that makes you happy... and remember most of all...

2 things... 1) ... ever small battle won, is that much closer to winning the war... (set goals for yourself which you can achieve to lift your spirits) ... and 2) ... you always have an ear here.

if you were just asking... but not asking about you.. just some 'advice' .. who figured he'd give his .02

 

[poopoo]

whenever I feel really down, I think of the less fortunate than me. Also, try to surround yourself with people that you enjoy, and if you just want to be alone, than do activities that you like. I know that it can be really hard to get out of a slump sometimes, but hang in there bro, times will get better

 

[Max-HC]

was there bro, hang in there it does get better belive me
I think drinking is the worst thing to do when you feel that way
i had to quit when i felt depressed it made me think deeper
it dosent cover up anything, hang in there if theres any thing i can do to help just let me know iam there for you and so is god.

 

[Saks]

Man hang in there! I have been through some terrible shit and have known friends there too. Believe me it gets better. Once you hit rock bottom, you can't go any where else but up!

 

[bigshug]

Nothing's worth that much grief, I battled a small bout of depression when I came off of AS, but somehow I managed to rise above. You're stronger than this, man. Don't let the negativity beat you.
As far as the drinking, it leads to nothing but shit. Saks knows what a problem I had (have) with alcohol. I almost lost friends, I got put in jail - lot's of shit because I tried to hide my emotions with the booze. Luckily, I picked up the weights and my life turned around 180 degrees as a result. Use your success in the gym as a tool to leverage positivity back into your life.
Finally, remember that we're all here for support......PM me or e-mail me if you want to talk...............stay strong

 

[92StangMan]

I have hit rock bottom and I am now at the top. God as helped me through everything! I will pray for you, bro. If you need to vent, you're more than welcome to PM me since I have been there and can probably help our your situation.

 

[deltachistud]

thanks bros, i need everything, i cant get happy, i just founfd the girl that i though i was in love with kissing her exboyfriend,m i jsut want to tell him " they ive been fucking your ex for 2 months now, and hey havent ya'll just been broken up for 2 weeks? " then beat hes fucking ass, ya'll are my bro" i love ya'll ya'll help out so much
thanks

 

[rugbythug]

take it to the gym. Make yourself to tired to be depressed. YOu will feel better the harder you push yourself.

 

[DecaDent*]

I hope things get better for you. You probably already know that alcohol is a depressant so it only makes depression worse. There are good medications that can help you out of depression,make a point to see your doctor and don't put it off. My best friend was feeling this way and had to much to drink one night and killed himself last year. He was not thinking straight and made a bad,irreversible choice. He left behind a loving family and many friends like me,that will be saddened forever. Depression is a serious disease that can become life threatenging. You should be get treatment bro.

 

[WeirdAl]

I second what DecaDent said - seek treatment ASAP. Life will without a doubt get much better in the future (probably really near future) - unless you do something drastic now. There is absolutely no shame in going and talking to a professional. If you have a medical condition that has you depressed, they will be able to prescribe something that will allow you to see clearly enough to work through whatever problems you have (with a clear head). If you just need to talk things out, they are great for that, too. I have an appointment for my first counselling session this coming week, and even just making the appointment has me feeling a bit better about things.

 

[scorpio]

I agree with all. Another thing. No woman is worth that. Been there done that. Screwed my head up bad. Drank my ass off, got in fights, got tons of stitches, for what? Lots of women out there and it's not worth it. If your depression is that bad, go see a professional immediately. Do not hesitate. A friend of mine's only brother killed himself over a girl and left his brother devistated. If you ever, and I mean ever, need to talk, drop me a line.

 

[deltachistud]

thanks bros

 

[japan69]

The fact that you are venting here probably means you aren't suicidal, but if you are contemplating that, a wise man once said to me: "Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem".

Any problem you got, bro, is just that: Temporary. It will go away.
I second the notion to take out your frustrations at the gym. Or get a punching bag... or hell, even go beat on that ex-boyfriend. Anything is better than taking it out on yourself, IMO.

Anyway, get pumped, work out hard, and don't sweat the chicks.

-j69

 

[Choke03]

Keep your head up bro, there has been awsome advice from everyone here. Girl's are everywhere don't sweat her or him. Just work harder on yourself. It is better you found out about her now vs. down the road some time and it cold have been alot worse.
We are here alway's man, and it is cool you talked to us about your private problam so we coud try and help. We are here for you man, no bitch is worth your grief.

 

[speedracer59]

Hey bro try a change of scenary. I got bogged down like that a couple of years ago. School was going nowhere,I lwas living with a couple of friends who were always doing drugs, I was drinking every night. I had a ton of pressure on me.I finally had enough one night and just broke down .I talked to few people and got out of my house, changed my major and got out of the rut I was in . It helped alot just getting in another house and having a direction.If you are deppresed change is the best thing .just my 2 cents.

 

[Nitrous Oxide]

Maybe, you should go to a church if you'r catholic or christian..
and talk to a father..and maybe even pray..that helps alot..with your mental health..

 

[deltachistud]

thanks i talked to my dad this weekend and i went to church and im feeling a lot better
thanks

 

[Presser]

hey bro i get like that alot, have you gone to a dr sorry if this was mentioned i only read your thread up top

 

[BLEED GREEN]

Hey Deltachi,,,,,,Hope your doing OK