Women in the gym...

[big in vegas]

In my normal gym there's NO women in there unless they're in there with their boyfriends or husbands, but at this new gym it's more a health club atmosphere. I'm not used to training around women and today I was the only guy over in the free weights until this smoking hot chick came over and starting using dumbbells. I treated her like I would another guy and just completely ignore her and pretend that she wasn't around. I kept to myself and kept my head down between sets rather than staring at her and not getting anything done (seen too many guys do this). So I think it either shocked her because when I got done she was staring at me as I was getting a drink and started smiling then walked up and started talking to me. She said that she saw me by myself and was a little intimidated to come over but decided anyway. I don't know if she was interested in me or just surprised that I wasn't like a shark in a pool of blood with her around.

She was asking if I normally come at that time and all that petty little talk shit. I just told her that I come in the mornings before work and left it at that and told her I was late and walked away. If ignoring her was a mind fuck, imagine how she feels that I cut the conversation short and walked away. I love being a dick to guys, but there's a certain feeling you get by being a dick to a woman that you know is used to getting attention

 

[Presser]

In my normal gym there's NO women in there unless they're in there with their boyfriends or husbands, but at this new gym it's more a health club atmosphere. I'm not used to training around women and today I was the only guy over in the free weights until this smoking hot chick came over and starting using dumbbells. I treated her like I would another guy and just completely ignore her and pretend that she wasn't around. I kept to myself and kept my head down between sets rather than staring at her and not getting anything done (seen too many guys do this). So I think it either shocked her because when I got done she was staring at me as I was getting a drink and started smiling then walked up and started talking to me. She said that she saw me by myself and was a little intimidated to come over but decided anyway. I don't know if she was interested in me or just surprised that I wasn't like a shark in a pool of blood with her around.

She was asking if I normally come at that time and all that petty little talk shit. I just told her that I come in the mornings before work and left it at that and told her I was late and walked away. If ignoring her was a mind fuck, imagine how she feels that I cut the conversation short and walked away. I love being a dick to guys, but there's a certain feeling you get by being a dick to a woman that you know is used to getting attention

yeah its called being a homosexual they do it all the time!

Did you being married ever come up? lol, Nah lol

 

[big in vegas]

Damn it, I keep my homo gig in the closet. I'm not married so no that never came up, but I guess she may think that I'm gay since I didn't hit on her asshole

 

[Presser]

lol, i wasnt saying you were gay,lol, but that would have been a funnier post i guess,lol. Sorry ur not married, just hitched, whatever that might mean in Virginia lol

 

[The Survivor]

In my normal gym there's NO women in there unless they're in there with their boyfriends or husbands, but at this new gym it's more a health club atmosphere. I'm not used to training around women and today I was the only guy over in the free weights until this smoking hot chick came over and starting using dumbbells. I treated her like I would another guy and just completely ignore her and pretend that she wasn't around. I kept to myself and kept my head down between sets rather than staring at her and not getting anything done (seen too many guys do this). So I think it either shocked her because when I got done she was staring at me as I was getting a drink and started smiling then walked up and started talking to me. She said that she saw me by myself and was a little intimidated to come over but decided anyway. I don't know if she was interested in me or just surprised that I wasn't like a shark in a pool of blood with her around.

She was asking if I normally come at that time and all that petty little talk shit. I just told her that I come in the mornings before work and left it at that and told her I was late and walked away. If ignoring her was a mind fuck, imagine how she feels that I cut the conversation short and walked away. I love being a dick to guys, but there's a certain feeling you get by being a dick to a woman that you know is used to getting attention

Theres a spefic area of human mind called Broccas Region whose job is to predict what will happen. If you turn a doorknob you expect door to open.....as in attraction, when a hot woman who has guys constantly drooling over them, gets a cold shoulder, bingo this area receives something it didnt expect....and assuming you at least fit her minimum requirement for attraction, then attraction happens. Paradoxial? yes Oxymoron? yes....but in certain cases true

I've been single all my life and have uses this to my advantage many times.....not 100% true but can work. If I feel myself getting too excited over a female, I blow her off. They usually freak out and come after me then

But good for you, dont give this attention girl what she expects

 

[The Dude]

Silk didn't pay me any attention at all. It drove me nuts. I threatened to throw my shoe at her!

 

[mike ross]

girls at my gym look at your workout outfit first and then prejudge...yeah its shallow

 

[dorian123]

Damn it, I keep my homo gig in the closet. I'm not married so no that never came up, but I guess she may think that I'm gay since I didn't hit on her asshole

word's gonna get around in the gym and in a week every homo in spandex will be hitting on you!!!

 

[1MoreRep]

We want pics of so called hot chick, lol, sneak one in when shes not looking

 

[WesleyInman]

Theres a spefic area of human mind called Broccas Region whose job is to predict what will happen. If you turn a doorknob you expect door to open.....as in attraction, when a hot woman who has guys constantly drooling over them, gets a cold shoulder, bingo this area receives something it didnt expect....and assuming you at least fit her minimum requirement for attraction, then attraction happens. Paradoxial? yes Oxymoron? yes....but in certain cases true

I've been single all my life and have uses this to my advantage many times.....not 100% true but can work. If I feel myself getting too excited over a female, I blow her off. They usually freak out and come after me then

But good for you, dont give this attention girl what she expects

+1 Survivor, you are 100% correct.

I do this all the time, and it has worked wonders for me over the last decade...It takes alot longer then the usual process, but if you perform correctly you will land the hottest girls, regardless of how good you do or don't look.

It's called Calculated Neglect, and even when you finally do pull the girl, you must not give her your full attention or full "self" if you want to keep her and her interest in you. She will fall in love with you. 48 laws of power (the book) describes this technique. The minute you give her your full attention, and go above and beyond for such a girl,and she knows she can rely on you, and she will be out the door or cheating on you immediately.

These "attention" girls are unattainable for the most part...they are commonly at the gym because they have low self esteem even though in many cases they are model material. You cannot make them happy, because they are constantly craving male attention and compliments.

Treat this as a temporary thing and it can be fun...primarily a physical relationship... Treat it seriously and fool yourself into believing it will work and put a ring on "this type" and be prepared for disappointment and let down,and Alimony payments.

 

[The Survivor]

+1 Survivor, you are 100% correct.

I do this all the time, and it has worked wonders for me over the last decade...It takes alot longer then the usual process, but if you perform correctly you will land the hottest girls, regardless of how good you do or don't look.

It's called Calculated Neglect, and even when you finally do pull the girl, you must not give her your full attention or full "self" if you want to keep her and her interest in you. She will fall in love with you. 48 laws of power (the book) describes this technique. The minute you give her your full attention, and go above and beyond for such a girl,and she knows she can rely on you, and she will be out the door or cheating on you immediately.

These "attention" girls are unattainable for the most part...they are commonly at the gym because they have low self esteem even though in many cases they are model material. You cannot make them happy, because they are constantly craving male attention and compliments.

Treat this as a temporary thing and it can be fun...primarily a physical relationship... Treat it seriously and fool yourself into believing it will work and put a ring on "this type" and be prepared for disappointment and let down,and Alimony payments.

Yep you got it Bro, Greene also touched on this in his follow up book, "the art of seduction". Remember this, the person with the least interest has the most control.

 

[big in vegas]

We want pics of so called hot chick, lol, sneak one in when shes not looking

Next time I see her in there I'll get one. Keep in mind this isn't my regular gym and I'll only be there for a month

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Theres a spefic area of human mind called Broccas Region whose job is to predict what will happen. If you turn a doorknob you expect door to open.....as in attraction, when a hot woman who has guys constantly drooling over them, gets a cold shoulder, bingo this area receives something it didnt expect....and assuming you at least fit her minimum requirement for attraction, then attraction happens. Paradoxial? yes Oxymoron? yes....but in certain cases true

I've been single all my life and have uses this to my advantage many times.....not 100% true but can work. If I feel myself getting too excited over a female, I blow her off. They usually freak out and come after me then

But good for you, dont give this attention girl what she expects

I'd always heard people say there was some kind of scientific fact about that to a degree, but never knew it was actually proven to a degree. I've noticed (when I'm single) that it does work. I actually got my gf now by hitting on her fat friend to kind of throw her off as I was sure it would fuck with her mind. She'll tell you it was because I was drunk and thought I could pull her friend easier, but I can play the drunk part up when need be lol

 

[The Survivor]

+1 Survivor, you are 100% correct.

I do this all the time, and it has worked wonders for me over the last decade...It takes alot longer then the usual process, but if you perform correctly you will land the hottest girls, regardless of how good you do or don't look.

It's called Calculated Neglect, and even when you finally do pull the girl, you must not give her your full attention or full "self" if you want to keep her and her interest in you. She will fall in love with you. 48 laws of power (the book) describes this technique. The minute you give her your full attention, and go above and beyond for such a girl,and she knows she can rely on you, and she will be out the door or cheating on you immediately.

These "attention" girls are unattainable for the most part...they are commonly at the gym because they have low self esteem even though in many cases they are model material. You cannot make them happy, because they are constantly craving male attention and compliments.

Treat this as a temporary thing and it can be fun...primarily a physical relationship... Treat it seriously and fool yourself into believing it will work and put a ring on "this type" and be prepared for disappointment and let down,and Alimony payments.

I think the book called it the Scaricity Theory or something like that. Make yourself scarce, increases your attraction.

 

[Mrbigz]

there is some fine pussy at my gym

 

[The Survivor]

+1 Survivor, you are 100% correct.

I do this all the time, and it has worked wonders for me over the last decade...It takes alot longer then the usual process, but if you perform correctly you will land the hottest girls, regardless of how good you do or don't look.

It's called Calculated Neglect, and even when you finally do pull the girl, you must not give her your full attention or full "self" if you want to keep her and her interest in you. She will fall in love with you. 48 laws of power (the book) describes this technique. The minute you give her your full attention, and go above and beyond for such a girl,and she knows she can rely on you, and she will be out the door or cheating on you immediately.

These "attention" girls are unattainable for the most part...they are commonly at the gym because they have low self esteem even though in many cases they are model material. You cannot make them happy, because they are constantly craving male attention and compliments.

Treat this as a temporary thing and it can be fun...primarily a physical relationship... Treat it seriously and fool yourself into believing it will work and put a ring on "this type" and be prepared for disappointment and let down,and Alimony payments.

Wesley you will like this one....I have this married unhappy woman PT client who has been blatanly coming on to me by showing me her tits and pierced clit.....and we have made out a few times and shes been "petting" me in certain areas.....shes says she wants to do it to it, her hubby hates sex and so on. So after about 8 wks of this teasing, (she always has excuses why she cant do it) I texted her to leave her hands off me and she needs to start acting married, either leave her husband or try to work things out. So now she acting real cold to me, etc.

I'll give it a week or so and she will be right back begging me for attention. I'll continue the hard to get.

 

[WesleyInman]

Wesley you will like this one....I have this married unhappy woman PT client who has been blatanly coming on to me by showing me her tits and pierced clit.....and we have made out a few times and shes been "petting" me in certain areas.....shes says she wants to do it to it, her hubby hates sex and so on. So after about 8 wks of this teasing, (she always has excuses why she cant do it) I texted her to leave her hands off me and she needs to start acting married, either leave her husband or try to work things out. So now she acting real cold to me, etc.

I'll give it a week or so and she will be right back begging me for attention. I'll continue the hard to get.

Yeah that's almost offensive to me..she opened the door and slammed it in your face LOL...

Good luck with that one I myself learned the valuable lesson of staying away from any and all PT clients...That old saying, don't S*** where you eat, has gotten me into trouble in the past...lesson learned for me

Good luck, let us know what happens!!!

 

[The Survivor]

Yeah that's almost offensive to me..she opened the door and slammed it in your face LOL...

Good luck with that one I myself learned the valuable lesson of staying away from any and all PT clients...That old saying, don't S*** where you eat, has gotten me into trouble in the past...lesson learned for me

Good luck, let us know what happens!!!

K Bro I will, the cool thing about this one is she really isn't my type and is OK looking at best. Perfect experimentation material as it really doesn't matter. FWIW I really have no desire to mess around w/anyone married, asking for trouble. Ironically last time I did was 10 yrs ago,(with a PT client) great sex for the 5 or 6 times we did it, then hubby found out. She went whimpering back to him of course. Haven't seen her since

 

[csuperman]

there are woman at my gym but all they do are those stupid group classes or the stair stepper and they have on many occasions came near me in the free weight area and then took their weights to another corner, they must not be able to stand next to someone so attractive as me.. lol

 

[IronJulius]

there are woman at my gym but all they do are those stupid group classes or the stair stepper and they have on many occasions came near me in the free weight area and then took their weights to another corner, they must not be able to stand next to someone so attractive as me.. lol

my gf wont go near free weights unless im there or nobody else is there. i will ask her why that is. im sure they want to check you out from a distance and they dont want to be caught staring. in my case im sure i make women in the gym feel uncomfortable like im having extremely intense sexual thoughts which is correct

 

[mcgaret]

I agree with the point that hot chicks get mind fucked when you arnt drooling over them. Mabey it gets their
intrest because you not acting like a dog. Funny thing happened to me not long ago. Hot woman at my gym.
I could only a disinterested "HI" out of her. While back I had breakfast up the block with a woman Im seeing.
Turns out the hot one at the gym is working there temporary part time. Saw her mabey twice taking the other
woman there. (Hey, they have good breakfast. lol) Now the woman at the gym is all over me. Comes up to
me or walks by me all touchy feely. What was it that seeing me with someone else got her hot??
(and Presser, I dont think she thought I was gay. lol) Woman are wired different. lol