I love you!
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the first thing I would do is call whoever you co-signed that car with and get your name off of those papers as fast as you can! my brother got screwed really badly in the past co-signing for an ex and then she started missing payments and his credit went in the shitter...
Spiderman
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bump what mike said...get that off of there as quickly as possible. I'm going to bump what deca said as well...you should take some time now to do the things that make you truly happy...if you're really torn up take some vacation time and get the healing process started. I'm also going to bump mcgaret. Sry to hear bro, get better.
for my 2 cents, if a guy has a history of cheating (and i dont mean slipped up and it's the rare exception not the rule) even if i'm into him i'll end up holding it against him. may not be fair to hold something against someone if they didnt do it to you, but in the back of my mind i'll wonder if they are steppin out and are just good at covering. if a guy has cheated on most of his girlfriends in the past (not assuming anything here h8t3d) im not idiot enough to think he'd be true to me. SOOOO just a heads up, if that's behavior you think you'll change when you meet the right one...just saying i'm not the only gal i know who thinks like that.
take care of yourself, heal, and deceide what YOU want. then you can start to look for and really see someone who you can be happy with.
Legs
take care of yourself, heal, and deceide what YOU want. then you can start to look for and really see someone who you can be happy with.
Legs
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longlegs said:
Very well put Legs. I totally concur. H8tr3d, life is too short to spread yourself around. You will only know love when you can give yourself fully. I think that people with reservations never find love. What a shame. I know you are hurt and something tells me you did not cheat on this one. Don't know why i have this impression. Either way, you deserve better. Forgive and move on.
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Sorry If I Repeat Another Comments As I Didnt Bother Reading Any Posts Afterhe Said He "usualy Cheats" Not Sure How Old You Are Bro And Dont Want To Come Off All Knowing Sounding, But Cheating Is For Highschool Man, You Dont Love Her If U Cheated On Her!
You Dont Know The Kinda Pain Caused By Cheating! Cause If You Did You Wouldnt Wish It On Ur Enemies Much Less Your Girlfriends.
Boys Cheat / Men Dont
And Im Not Ragging On Ya Thats Just My Opinion, Plus Im Geussing Ur Younger If Ur Cheating Still, Again Bro Not Disrespecting You Just Filling You In On My Opinion
You Dont Know The Kinda Pain Caused By Cheating! Cause If You Did You Wouldnt Wish It On Ur Enemies Much Less Your Girlfriends.
Boys Cheat / Men Dont
And Im Not Ragging On Ya Thats Just My Opinion, Plus Im Geussing Ur Younger If Ur Cheating Still, Again Bro Not Disrespecting You Just Filling You In On My Opinion
Thanks for the input ladies and gents! Normally i am this angry, and usually even more of an Asshole, but i dont want to get booted, cause all of you have good things to say, and i usually listen. Anyway your all good people (from what i gather), and i will continue to post random ass shit! Hahahaha..................... by the way Fonz, your woman looks pretty fine in her new profile pic!! Prrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr......(no disrespect buddy):dizzy:
Presser you and i were seperated at birth brotha because I feel the same way. Not knockin you h8 but if you would ever see the pain caused by cheatin you wouldnt even think of it. As men we have to do whats right by our ladies at all cost, that means takin care of them emotionally, fiancailly, and spiritually. I love my girl so much and would not even think about doing something that would cause her to hurt. H8 you seem to know what to do and I understand bro, but ease up on your next girl, she may be the one GOD has placed in your path.Even all of us on here,although we have never met, or seen each other in person have crossed this path for a reason.Good Luck Bro!
We all struggle with something bro and its not an overnight thing, but I come to realize and I'm speaking for myself only that without HIM I would always fail and would never be as happy as I am today. Im not gonna preach just sharing. As long as you just give thanks to him for your everyday health bro your life will start to turn in a direction you never knew. Stay strong, stay possitive, and always stay strong in him, because he will stay strong in you.
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deca246 said:
been there, done that... and you're absolutely right.. there's nothing better than having your relationship, your life, and things on track.. (and looking good), to flaunt in the face of a bitch/asshole who missed on something good..
b/c the fact is, when you find someone who's worth flaunting and your happy... (worth flaunting meaning, the whole package not just looks)... then you've made the right decision all along.. and that my friend is worth more than words... (and the look of 'awe shit what did i do') from the other.. is so priceless that you don't even care if they notice... when you're happy, who f'n cares what other people think..
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