How many of you think it is ok to date your friends x-girlfriend?

[sober]

1st post.hello!,
anyways your prob is with your 'friend' not her. same type of thing happened to me a few years back, now my 'friend' and ex are happily married, and im happy for them....I forgave him, because like you, we did break up for some dumb reason and i went on to the next girl. plus we were friend since HS and went through a bunch of stuff growing up. kinda makes you wonder on when you two were dating and he was around, was he thinking about swooping in and going for her, thats what gets me the most. depending on how good of friends you two are, this will make you or break you two.

 

[uppercut]

I've had friends ask me to.

 

[MacGyver]

Jake in your instance it is unfortunate what happened but maybe it was a blessing in disguise. I don't agree with what your friend did to you or what your ex asked you to do either. I have been in those stubborn situations too.
If I were in your shoes and your friend came up and asked me if he could date my ex, in that case I would say no. But there are plenty of ex's that I have that I couldn't give a rat's ass who dated them.

 

[MacGyver]

It's a lot easier to date other girls when you live in a big city. Try living in a city of 50,000 or less and you end up dating everyones ex.

 

[mcinfo]

I married my friends sister... and you ask about his Ex....lol

 

[jake steed]

I just don't know what to think because he was a real cool friend and we hung out a lot. We would go out together and rap to the ladies like no tommorrow. Now it is like, I had sex with his fiance and was really close to her for the short time we dated. I blew off another friends wedding because she was going to be there and it is kind of uncomfortable because there still is that attraction and unended relationship. The reason I say unended is because we never really officically talked about breaking up we just never called each other. So I know she still would want to be with me..... but it is really f_ _ _ _ ing weird because now he is with her and if we ever talk their will be some arguement or jealosy thing going on with him and my new girlfriend would probably be jealous. It is just weird cause now she is still in the same circle of close friends. I just have to say if I was him or if you are in a situation same as he was don't do it. Cause it just creates weird problems!

 

[rico*]

cc your friends sister and your friends ex gf are much diferent in my book.

 

[gypsymoth]

yup! why not if he's not seeing her any more.you could enjoy a brush encounter and enclitic could be a wonderful experience...

 

[Sir Foxx]

1st rule of Fight Club: Don't talk about Fight Club

2nd rule of Fight Club: Don't talk about Fight Club

3rd rule of Fight Club: Leave ex's of friends alone, plenty of other women to bang.

 

[jake steed]

this is great guys

 

[Unionlineman]

Nada!! Open a can of worms

 

[jake steed]

Sticken it to him.....

Well, I took the time to write this.... now I reviewed everyone's posts and decided to do what I thought was justified.

This dick who was supposed to be my friend ends up he is with my ex for a good 4 years now.

2 weeks ago the jagoff comes to vegas for a bachelor party invites me and cheats on my ex twice once with a escort.

Well I got the escourts number and this prick tried to stiff her for the escort fee so I got her number and called her the following monday and left his fiance's number along with name and address so the escort could call her up 2 ask for payment.

I then called her best friend and gave her the escorts number and another number of another one of friends g-friends.


I guess karma is a bitch!


I sent him this post too!

 

[buffgrandpa]

Nothing wrong with what you did....but...

In answer to the first part of the thread, the operative word is "ex"... which means available to anyone.....

 

[Lord Odin]

No fucking way...that is just wrong!!!

 

[MarvelGirl]

hmmm....well i think you are violating the unwritten rule of never recycling your buddies date.

would you care if he was macking your ex date? however i guess it depends how serious they were too....i personally wouldnt consider that unless you want your life to be a dramatic soap opera lol

 

[Missfit]

hmmm....well i think you are violating the unwritten rule of never recycling your buddies date.

I agree 100%

 

[jake steed]

right on.....

Just to reiterate he is with my ex.

We aren't friends anymore.

I wouldn't do that because I wonder if he was plotting this the whole time when I was with her. I would have considered her kinda serious....


Still a fucked up situation!

I hope this is a lesson for some people!



:arcade:

 

[jackedupcrazy]

I have one thing to say....bros before hos man!!!
Always!!! Chicks come and go, but friends are forever....or usually are until you start dating his ex!!

So, no its not a good idea.

 

[irishpride]

if i were you and he took my ex,i would bang his mother in the ass LOL and video tape it then sent it to everyone he knows LMAO!!! but i am pretty sure there is a unwritten law about bangin someone you knows mom in the ass,shit there is probably a written law about that LOL...

 

[jake steed]

irish price

Very funny! That is a great idea. I think one of our mutual friends has already done that. I got him back already. He changed 2 phone numbers that he has had for 5 years or longer and supposedly has notified the police that I am harassing him "which I never called his house or cell all I did was blow the whistle on his dumb ass" she is still with him. he must have really done some serious talking. I sent all of our old mutual friends a copy of this post so I appreciate everyone who has been honest and has really helped me out by not thinking I am crazy or mad for nothing. Thanks again....

For the record.... our friendship is gone forever over this!

If he was a true friend he wouldn't have did what he did.

Peace out!