bigshug
New member
Ok, so I'm back and I feel like I need to clear up a few things.
1. I already have two children, conceived way before I ever started using AS, and we don't plan on having any more
2. I certainly don't believe that steroids will affect my chromosomal DNA, which is what I'd pass to my children if I had more in the future
3. Why didn't I tell her in the first place? Well, mostly the misconceptions about AS kept me from coming out in the open. Already, some of the questions she's asked directly reflect the propaganda that the media hypes up surrounding steroids and their use. I did a lot of research, spent lots of time here and at Fitness Board and decided that it was something I wanted to do that wouldn't hurt anyone and would best be kept a secret. C'mon, she's lied to me in the past about her smoking....isn't that just as bad? I know, I know. Cigarettes aren't illegal. But they've been proven to cause far more health complications not only for the user, but also for anyone in the immediate vicinity as well.
I didn't think I'd get beaten up over the fact that I didn't tell her initially, especially since I admitted my mistake and expressed my remorse for damaging the trust between my wife and myself.
Bottom line? I'm glad this has happened. I've gotten a feel for just how special a person I married. Yeh, I knew that before, but this just goes to show how deep her emotions for me run. I'll certainly never lie to her in the future.....
1. I already have two children, conceived way before I ever started using AS, and we don't plan on having any more
2. I certainly don't believe that steroids will affect my chromosomal DNA, which is what I'd pass to my children if I had more in the future
3. Why didn't I tell her in the first place? Well, mostly the misconceptions about AS kept me from coming out in the open. Already, some of the questions she's asked directly reflect the propaganda that the media hypes up surrounding steroids and their use. I did a lot of research, spent lots of time here and at Fitness Board and decided that it was something I wanted to do that wouldn't hurt anyone and would best be kept a secret. C'mon, she's lied to me in the past about her smoking....isn't that just as bad? I know, I know. Cigarettes aren't illegal. But they've been proven to cause far more health complications not only for the user, but also for anyone in the immediate vicinity as well.
I didn't think I'd get beaten up over the fact that I didn't tell her initially, especially since I admitted my mistake and expressed my remorse for damaging the trust between my wife and myself.
Bottom line? I'm glad this has happened. I've gotten a feel for just how special a person I married. Yeh, I knew that before, but this just goes to show how deep her emotions for me run. I'll certainly never lie to her in the future.....