Women in the gym...

[1MoreRep]

My wife likes the fact that I have my own gym at work, shes knows how I used to be lol and the Y here has some nice lookin chicks from what I hear lol

 

[The Survivor]

Yeah that's almost offensive to me..she opened the door and slammed it in your face LOL...

Good luck with that one I myself learned the valuable lesson of staying away from any and all PT clients...That old saying, don't S*** where you eat, has gotten me into trouble in the past...lesson learned for me

Good luck, let us know what happens!!!

So I more or less told her hands off, keep it freindly. So the very next day she comes in and after our WO, she tells me to back into my office w/her. She then proceeds to literally maul me, puts her hand down my pants, grabs Hermie, pulls out and performs oral on me. All the time I'm watching out of a one way mirror at my members checking in and so on, just laughing. Thats as far as it got but shows you the power of blowing someone off (no pun)

 

[JillyRev]

Haha thanks for the laugh this am guys. This might be one of the best threads I've read in a while.

 

[big in vegas]

Haha thanks for the laugh this am guys. This might be one of the best threads I've read in a while.

We always aim to please lol. What's in your input on this? Does it actually throw a curveball when a guy acts totally uninterested? I mean you'd wipe the floor with the woman I'm talking to and it seemed to bother her

 

[Buffalo]

I'd love to hear Jillian's and Silks input on this. Especially since my psycho stalker run in I really have to agree with the whole ignoring hot chicks idea.

 

[SilkQuads]

I didn't read the whole post, but yes. If I didn't get attention from a guy I was interested in I'd magically become more attracted to him. I didn't become a psycho stalker though. I think the girls with low self esteem are the ones who get crazy. I honestly don't know what I did. I'm shy, so I probably gave up.

 

[Presser]

I didn't read the whole post, but yes. If I didn't get attention from a guy I was interested in I'd magically become more attracted to him. I didn't become a psycho stalker though. I think the girls with low self esteem are the ones who get crazy. I honestly don't know what I did. I'm shy, so I probably gave up.

Thats not what I heard! lol, just kidding, I havent heard anything...well not much.....ok a little bit.......ok ok i havent heard shit,lol

 

[The Survivor]

I didn't read the whole post, but yes. If I didn't get attention from a guy I was interested in I'd magically become more attracted to him. I didn't become a psycho stalker though. I think the girls with low self esteem are the ones who get crazy. I honestly don't know what I did. I'm shy, so I probably gave up.

Silk I beleive the word is "challenge" and women seem to like that

 

[SilkQuads]

Silk I beleive the word is "challenge" and women seem to like that

Yes, that would be a good word to use. I must now warn the women that you guys are on to us!

 

[big in vegas]

Don't go running and telling on us lol, we need to use this to our advantage

 

[The Survivor]

With all due respect to the great females we have on this site, I've always thought that this "challenge" is what many women may consider romance. A prize too easily had is discounted. I beleive that if you put the woman in the somewhat uncomfortable position of chaser as opposed to chasee, this somehow in a perverse way, sparks attraction. Paradoxial? Oxymoronic? Yes but attraction usually doesn't make sense. But look at my ripe old age and I knew this back when I graduated from HS in 1977......

Example, when I rode the school bus home in grade school, on my way off the bus I would pull a few girls ponytails from behind. They would scold me, tell me not to ever do that again and so on. But I knew they liked it as I would get a valentine from a couple of them in February. Flirting even in 3rd grade....

 

[Buffalo]

Women are weird.

 

[SilkQuads]

Women are weird.

And you're just figuring this out?! :wink:

 

[IronJulius]

"women are to imaginative to have much sense"

last week a female was hitting on me and i blew her off real quick, a few minutes later i walked up to her to apologize for being rude and explained im in a relationship and dont want to disrespect my gf, she says omg you really are a great guy and she is lucky to have such a good man, then continued to flirt with me

 

[Boomer]

Theres a spefic area of human mind called Broccas Region whose job is to predict what will happen. If you turn a doorknob you expect door to open.....as in attraction, when a hot woman who has guys constantly drooling over them, gets a cold shoulder, bingo this area receives something it didnt expect....and assuming you at least fit her minimum requirement for attraction, then attraction happens. Paradoxial? yes Oxymoron? yes....but in certain cases true

I've been single all my life and have uses this to my advantage many times.....not 100% true but can work. If I feel myself getting too excited over a female, I blow her off. They usually freak out and come after me then

But good for you, dont give this attention girl what she expects

I used to do this all the time too.. it does work. . Act like you only want to be her friend and not root her... then all she can think about is your d|ck

 

[SilkQuads]

I'm not trying to start a debate because I'm severely out numbered...lol, but it's not true that guys don't like a challenge or the hunt? If a girl doesn't pay you the attention you think you should be getting, are you guys saying it doesn't make her that much more attractive? Personally I think everyone likes the challenge and it's the crazy ones (like Presser...from what I've heard) who become psycho stalkers. But what do I know, I'm just a girl

 

[big in vegas]

I'm not trying to start a debate because I'm severely out numbered...lol, but it's not true that guys don't like a challenge or the hunt? If a girl doesn't pay you the attention you think you should be getting, are you guys saying it doesn't make her that much more attractive? Personally I think everyone likes the challenge and it's the crazy ones (like Presser...from what I've heard) who become psycho stalkers. But what do I know, I'm just a girl

The only type of girls that typically chase guys are the one that nobody in their right mind wants. Most women don't think like we do so we're not chased and drooled over quite like you women are. Unless you're a movie star or musician, then it all changes.

 

[SilkQuads]

all she can think about is your d|ck

The Dude's in another room and I just yelled to ask him a question...he had the nerve to tell me to hold on! I need his dick now!!! It's all I can think about... Lol!

Sorry, couldn't resist

 

[Buffalo]

I always liked the chase even if I came out of it hungry still. I love talking to women and have always felt comfortable just starting a conversation with them and knowing when to push and when I just don't feel like playing games. Even now being married I know that I can't lay all my cards on the table, even though I always romance my wife I never invade her space or if I want sex corner her and grab her ass. I ignore her for a bit which I know drives her nuts if I'm not talking to her or if I don't text her while she's working. IMO women don't want a chaser but someone that can trigger that button and just pay enough attention to show interest but more importantly create that tension that you feel when you just want to rip each others clothes off.

Now being married, all that shit I just said goes out of the window. I always get hit on without even me wanting to and my wife knows it and thinks it's hysterical. Silk, I have to forward you the fb messages from this crazy broad that Cindy was about to beat the shit out of. It was funny at first but this chick went loony toon's when she sent me a picture of her in bikini and I didn't say she was hott.

 

[IronJulius]

IMO women don't want a chaser but someone that can trigger that button and just pay enough attention to show interest but more importantly create that tension that you feel when you just want to rip each others clothes off.

Now being married, all that shit I just said goes out of the window

as much as i want to be married and willing to spend the rest of my life with only one person, this is so true for many marriages.

i like ripping clothes off