Catching my man....

[IronPlease]

Alright, I don't want to sound like a typical whinny woman but I figured maybe a male perspective would clear things up. So when I first met my husband he mentioned he was a "boob" dude, no biggie, most guys are. Although with my figure, Im pretty much lacking in that department. lucky for me I make up for it with better "assets" so its never a deal breaker.lol I am the first fitness oriented woman hes dated and I understand that everyone checks others out from time to time, but EVERYTIME we go to the gym I catch him creeping on the same big boobed bikini looking bitch. We've had issues in the past with him pretty much eye fucking waitresses, which he has genuinely apologized about. Its just something that bothers me. Yes, weve talked about it but it didn't get anywhere and now its to the point where I crack jokes to get my point across. The whole issue itself makes me feel like an insecure crazy latina, and I am extremely layed back. I love my body and definition but Im starting to think that its not his cup of tea... opinions? advice?

 

[Presser]

Alright, I don't want to sound like a typical whinny woman but I figured maybe a male perspective would clear things up. So when I first met my husband he mentioned he was a "boob" dude, no biggie, most guys are. Although with my figure, Im pretty much lacking in that department. lucky for me I make up for it with better "assets" so its never a deal breaker.lol I am the first fitness oriented woman hes dated and I understand that everyone checks others out from time to time, but EVERYTIME we go to the gym I catch him creeping on the same big boobed bikini looking bitch. We've had issues in the past with him pretty much eye fucking waitresses, which he has genuinely apologized about. Its just something that bothers me. Yes, weve talked about it but it didn't get anywhere and now its to the point where I crack jokes to get my point across. The whole issue itself makes me feel like an insecure crazy latina, and I am extremely layed back. I love my body and definition but Im starting to think that its not his cup of tea... opinions? advice?

My wife is Peurto Rican and has little tits and a banging ass and i prefer that over tits any day! She is in shape like you and i have done what your man is doing but only to get my wife jealous a little bit, or to let her know that "hey i can get laid to any time i want"(maybe) lol. i know thats lame, but i know my wife could pull whatever man she wanted so its a game sort of, so maybe your man is letting you know, cause he sees how guys are all over you?

Its hard to say though, is your guy into bodybuilding to, or fitness, is he hot, or does he just think he's hot,lol its all relative honestly lol.

Now if he is eye fucking girls when he really thinks ur not looking and its not to get ya jealous, then dump his ass now! promise ya thats no good! I been married nearly 11 years and together with her over 14 years, and truth be told you can't waist your time if your man is seriously checking chicks out, but if its always and purposely in front of you, i wouldn't worry about it!

Sorry if thats lame advice but its all i gots lol

 

[Presser]

By the way "Crazy Latina" is an Oxymoron!

 

[IronPlease]

lmao, Thanks presser. Honestly my man is average, but Im so in love with his personality. Hes never seriously lifted and the funny part is hes got the perfect frame. Talks about wanting to be big but doesn't want to put the work in (which is a whole other issue on its own.) Never thought Id marry someone who couldn't keep up with me in the gym... crazy.

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Its like hes so blatant with it, idk if hes that bad at getting away with things or doesn't care that I know?

 

[charliebigspuds]

narr its just a crazy fucked up latina thing..my wife is from brazil so i get u....but im a leg ass kinda guy..but the trouble is when these hot chicks with there baps on show i gota say i stare i really try not to because i know how my wife feels in the gym..
as long as he is not playing away keep cool..but it is kinda disrespecfull to do it while u are there with him..a liitle look or glance granted..we are men..lol..
if he loves u it dont matter what he like..he can like right..cuz some times u gota check out the rest to know u got da best..
well thats what i tell my wife when she catch me LOOKING....lol...
BE COOL IF HE LOVES U.. HE LOVES U FOR WHO U ARE, NOT WHAT HE WANT U TO BE...

JMPOV.
like i said i like long legs and a big ass..my wife is 5ft4..but i love her and would not give her up for nothing..
get some of them chicken fillets and pop em in bingo big boobies..lol..

 

[IronPlease]

^ lmao got those for special occasions out on the town

 

[Millennial Monster]

Most guys like to push there gfs buttons especially if they don't get to with there buddies enough it's our nature. He is being incosiderate doing it in front of you. But...I mean I'm probably never going to have a black gf, I'm not a chubby chaser, don't like older woman. The grass is always greener on the other side you know? If he had that big boobed blond or whatever. He would be looking at all the tighter packaged girls like you with the nicely rounded rears. You could try some MC IGF as well I hear that is great for spot injection.:chinese:

 

[IronPlease]

You could try some MC IGF as well I here that is great for spot injection.:chinese:

WHY am I just now finding out about this??? lmao

 

[Presser]

lmao, Thanks presser. Honestly my man is average, but Im so in love with his personality. Hes never seriously lifted and the funny part is hes got the perfect frame. Talks about wanting to be big but doesn't want to put the work in (which is a whole other issue on its own.) Never thought Id marry someone who couldn't keep up with me in the gym... crazy.

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Its like hes so blatant with it, idk if hes that bad at getting away with things or doesn't care that I know?

I didn't realize in the OP you guys were actually married, Just wanted to say my "Dump him" comment should be stricken from the record in that case,lol, I'm a firm believer in working things out if your married! Boyfriend being a dick is one thing, husband, the man you love and devoted to spend the rest of your life with is another thing! Just wanted to say that, as my wife has left me for months on end, and you do what you have to do to make things works, and were best friends and have two gorgeous 9 month old twins , boy girl, . So yeah married people hammer shit out in my humble opinion, unless someone actually cheats, then it will never be the same, at least i woldnt think it would and never wanna know lol

 

[The Dude]

You've got to have another talk. He needs to understand how upset it makes you. Sometimes we are jackasses and don't put ourselves in our significant others shoes. It needs to be addressed ASAP, but with some finesse. He needs to know it hurts you and its damaging your relationship. I'm a big fan of counseling. Small things could just be the tip of real problems and having an independent trained counselor walk you guys through it is a real asset. Don't discount how much it hurts you. It would kill me if my wife was checking out other dudes...

 

[Millennial Monster]

The dude doesn't abide with his wife checking out other dudes. I couldn't have said it better myself.

 

[dorian123]

that's solid advice there:surprised Dude

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or you can do what my wife does, when we get home she pulls my pants down and gives me a spanking

sometimes she'll wear a Velcro glove, saves money from getting my ass waxed

 

[Presser]

IRON PLEASE...you compete? And do you have pics posted some place we can see ? Your avatar looks really good , plus I have a thing for Spanish women mmmmmm lmao

 

[Presser]

You've got to have another talk. He needs to understand how upset it makes you. Sometimes we are jackasses and don't put ourselves in our significant others shoes. It needs to be addressed ASAP, but with some finesse. He needs to know it hurts you and its damaging your relationship. I'm a big fan of counseling. Small things could just be the tip of real problems and having an independent trained counselor walk you guys through it is a real asset. Don't discount how much it hurts you. It would kill me if my wife was checking out other dudes...

You don't really believe your girl doesn't check out other dudes(pun intended)??? They're worse then us! Your probably married to a bird watcher and you don't even know it lol

 

[dorian123]

everyone checks other people out, it's just human nature...just don't be disrespectful about it

when me and my wife go out-no shit, more girls check her out than guys-not in a sexual way but just comparing themselves

that and since I always have a pissed look on my face??? some guys might not want to get caught-I don't care I take it as a compliment

as long as they keep their mouth shut everything is good

 

[Presser]

everyone checks other people out, it's just human nature...just don't be disrespectful about it

when me and my wife go out-no shit, more girls check her out than guys-not in a sexual way but just comparing themselves

that and since I always have a pissed look on my face??? some guys might not want to get caught-I don't care I take it as a compliment

as long as they keep their mouth shut everything is good

thats too funny, everyone always says i look mean to lol, my own fucking wife even agrees with people who say they thought i was mean before i started talking to them, then she jumps in with i told ya so shit ….then i kick her teeth down her throat and prove them all correct…last part was an attempt at a joke

 

[The Dude]

You don't really believe your girl doesn't check out other dudes(pun intended)??? They're worse then us! Your probably married to a bird watcher and you don't even know it lol

I don't know man... It was like a mission to get her to notice me in the gym and I'm damn goodlooking. I'd cram my shorts up my ass and bend over in front of her... Nothing. Finally I brought donuts to her at work and said "eat up fatty". That's when she realized I was the man of her dreams. True story

 

[dorian123]

I don't know man... It was like a mission to get her to notice me in the gym and I'm damn goodlooking. I'd cram my shorts up my ass and bend over in front of her... Nothing. Finally I brought donuts to her at work and said "eat up fatty". That's when she realized I was the man of her dreams. True story

LOL! that's fucking great!

 

[CH3NO2]

I see this as insecurity on YOUR part. Men are going to look. Its how we are. Just as long as he does not act on his looking then what harm is done? None, zip, zilch, ZERO.

This is such a none issue for me and my wife. Heck my wife points out the hot chicks before I do.

Me personally I'd never be in a relationship with a woman that is so insecure I could never look at another woman. Women are things of beauty and will not live my life not being able to look, shit especially with the amount of Test in my system...

Same goes for me. I'm sure as shit my wife looks but I know for a fact she does not act. So no harm, no foul. Just because you're on a diet does not mean you cannot look at the menu.

 

[dorian123]

I see this as insecurity on YOUR part. Men are going to look. Its how we are. Just as long as he does not act on his looking then what harm is done? None, zip, zilch, ZERO.

This is such a none issue for me and my wife. Heck my wife points out the hot chicks before I do.

Me personally I'd never be in a relationship with a woman that is so insecure I could never look at another woman. Women are things of beauty and will not live my life not being able to look, shit especially with the amount of Test in my system...

Same goes for me. I'm sure as shit my wife looks but I know for a fact she does not act. So no harm, no foul. Just because you're on a diet does not mean you cannot look at the menu.

you make a good point but it depends on how he is looking, if he just glances then that's no big deal...if he's gawking and foaming at the mouth, then yeah that's kinda disrespectful