Bro, What's the point of having a topless waitress? That just seems like a plain waste of money to me.
Here's a suggestion: Break up with your current girlfriend as it seems as though you do not respect her and IMO you don't deserve to be with her if you don't care about her and her feelings. Then it will be fair to go out and do whatever and whomever you want. When you're a bit older and wiser I'm hoping you'll realize that having such a strong desire to go to a strip club/see a stripper means that you're either lacking something big emotionally/somewhat physically in your relationship or you have some sort of insecurity / confidence issues with yourself.
This is just my opinion,
Here's a suggestion: Break up with your current girlfriend as it seems as though you do not respect her and IMO you don't deserve to be with her if you don't care about her and her feelings. Then it will be fair to go out and do whatever and whomever you want. When you're a bit older and wiser I'm hoping you'll realize that having such a strong desire to go to a strip club/see a stripper means that you're either lacking something big emotionally/somewhat physically in your relationship or you have some sort of insecurity / confidence issues with yourself.
This is just my opinion,